Sunday, March 1, 2009

I Think I Understand







As I watched the second episode of "The Baby Borrowers" I saw that taking care of a baby isn't easy. For example, Kelsey thought she was ready to have a baby until she had to deal with Etta. Once Sean had to leave for work she told him she was sick. I think she told him she was sick because she felt like she couldn't take care of the baby by herself. After a while, Etta mom then came over and had a talk with Kelsey. She told Kelsey when she has a child she can't just can't check out on the baby meaning just because she is sick doesn't mean the baby doesn't need her. The baby needs that mother bond no matter how the mother is feeling.
If I had a child my social life would change because I wouldn't be able to do what I want anymore. I say I wouldn't be able to do what I want because having a baby is a big responsibilty. Once I have a baby I won't be able to go out how I want, stay out late, or even work the hours I want to. I won't be able to go out because my baby will need me there for him/her.
If I had a baby I would probably take online classes to further my education. I would take online classes because I wouldn't want to send my baby to a babysitter at such an early age. I feel this way because once you start sending your baby to the babysitter they tend to get spoiled very fast.
My friend thought she was ready to have a baby a now she has one and feels like she is wasting her time doing nothing. Once she found out she was pregnant she told her mom and her mom asked her what was she wanted to do and she said she wanted to keep her baby. Before her baby was born she thought she had everything planned out. Now that her baby is here she feels like she is just wasting her time sitting in the house. She says she wants to go back to work because she wants her own money but she can't. Before she graduated she was planning to go to college and then once she got pregnant and had the baby it's like everything set her back. She doesn't think her baby is a mistake but she doesn't feel like she could have waited.



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